Ok, so the people that read this, this is not towards anyone directly, rather something that people need to hear. Relationships destroy friendships....... there have been times in my life where I was in a relationship and after the relationship ended, the friendship was destroyed. I HATE THAT WITH A PASSION. I can not stand it when ever I see someone whom I was in a relationship with to see them avoid me. I want everyone to know that I love love love love people. I am a people person and I love to connect with other brothers and sisters in Christ. My advice to guys and girls who are in relationships, if by some chance you break up with someone, I understand it will take a good while to get over the relationship, but there should come a point in time, where you can put all of that behind you and become friends again. Life is precious and we are not promised tomorrow. Take every opportunity to love on people, even in past relationships.
In Christ,
Michael
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ReplyDeleteWith time, that happens. If people try to rush the friendship after the relationship is over...it is called stalking! I will say that now, many, many years after H.S. and College, I am in contact with many of my very happily married with children ex-girlfriends, and we get along quite well.
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